What is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)?

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a widely used and effective form of psychotherapy that focuses on the relationship between thoughts, feelings and behaviours. CBT is based on several core principles:

Cognitive Restructuring: CBT emphasises the role of thoughts in shaping our emotions and behaviours. The central principle is that our thoughts influence our feelings and actions. In CBT, individuals learn to identify and challenge negative or distorted thought patterns, replacing them with more realistic and positive thoughts.

Behaviour Modification: CBT also addresses the role of behaviours in influencing thoughts and feelings. It teaches individuals to identify problematic behaviours and develop strategies to change them. This can involve implementing new behaviours or modifying existing ones to promote positive outcomes.

Goal-Oriented: CBT is typically a short-term, goal-oriented therapy. Clients and therapists work together to set specific, measurable and achievable goals for treatment. These goals help provide focus and direction for therapy sessions.

Empirical Approach: CBT is evidence-based, meaning it relies on scientific research and proven techniques. Therapists use techniques and interventions that have demonstrated effectiveness in treating specific psychological conditions. This evidence-based approach makes CBT one of the most
well-researched and validated forms of therapy.

Collaboration: CBT is a collaborative process between the therapist and the client. Clients actively participate in their treatment by setting goals, identifying problems and working on assignments or exercises between sessions. The therapist serves as a guide and facilitator.

Psychoeducation: CBT often includes psychoeducation, which involves providing clients with information about their condition, the CBT model and strategies for managing their symptoms.
Educating clients about the connection between thoughts, emotions and behaviours empowers them to take control of their mental health.

Exposure and Desensitisation: In cases of anxiety disorders, phobias or obsessive-compulsive disorders, CBT may involve exposure therapy, where clients gradually confront their fears in a controlled and safe manner to reduce anxiety and desensitise themselves to the triggers.

Homework and Self-Monitoring: Clients are often assigned homework or self-monitoring tasks to practice the skills and strategies learned in therapy between sessions. This helps reinforce learning and encourages clients to apply what they’ve learned in their daily lives.

Time-Limited: CBT is typically a short-term therapy that focuses on addressing specific problems or symptoms.

Flexibility: CBT can be adapted to address a wide range of psychological issues, from depression and anxiety to substance abuse and eating disorders. Therapists can tailor the approach to suit the unique needs of each client.

CBT is widely used in the treatment of various mental health conditions and is known for its effectiveness in helping individuals manage their thoughts, emotions and behaviours to improve their mental wellbeing.

At PMHWB, we believe if children are taught positive self-talk, self-acceptance and self-respect, which form the foundation of CBT principles, they will have greater resilience towards life’s challenges and be able to show greater compassion towards others when adversity strikes.

Teaching children positive self-talk, self-acceptance and self-respect can have a significant positive impact on their emotional and psychological wellbeing. These skills are foundational to building resilience and fostering compassion, which are essential for navigating life’s challenges. Here’s how each of these elements can contribute to a child’s development:

Positive Self-Talk:

Positive self-talk involves teaching children to recognise and replace negative or self-critical thoughts with more positive and constructive ones. This helps them develop a healthier self-image and cope better with adversity.
Positive self-talk can boost self-esteem, confidence and self-worth. When children believe in themselves and their abilities, they are more likely to approach challenges with a can-do attitude.

Self-Acceptance:

Teaching self-acceptance encourages children to accept themselves as they are, with all their strengths and weaknesses. It promotes a sense of self-worth that isn’t dependent on external validation.

Self-acceptance helps children develop a healthy self-concept, reduce self-judgment and build a strong foundation of self-esteem. It also enables them to be more compassionate toward themselves, as well as others.

Self-Respect:

Self-respect involves setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, valuing one’s own needs and wellbeing and making choices that align with one’s values and principles.
Teaching self-respect helps children develop a sense of integrity and self-worth. It allows them to make decisions that prioritise their long-term happiness and wellbeing, even when faced with peer pressure or difficult choices.

The benefits of instilling these qualities in children include:

Resilience: Children who practice positive self-talk, self-acceptance and self-respect are better equipped to bounce back from setbacks and adversity. They develop a more optimistic and adaptable mindset that helps them face challenges with confidence.

Compassion: When children have a healthy relationship with themselves, they are more likely to extend empathy and compassion to others. Self-acceptance and self-respect can foster a sense of empathy and understanding, promoting kindness and empathy in relationships.

Emotional Regulation: These skills can also help children better manage their emotions. They learn to acknowledge and accept their feelings, which can lead to healthier emotional regulation.

Mental Health: Developing a positive self-concept can contribute to better mental health outcomes, including reduced risk of anxiety, depression and other emotional disorders.

Using the PMHWB programs parents, caregivers and educators can model and reinforce these principles through their own behaviours and interactions. Creating a supportive and nurturing environment where children feel valued, accepted and respected, which is crucial for their development.

Incorporating the scientific CBT principles into the educational curricula and parenting approaches we can help children develop the tools they need to thrive, show compassion to others and navigate life’s challenges more effectively.